Expressing Gratitude for (and to) Our Friends


      When we came into Macedonia, we had no rest, but we were harassed at every turn—conflicts on the outside, fears within. But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus. 2 Cor. 7:5-6 (NIV)

     A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Prov. 17:17 (NIV)

     But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today”. Heb. 3:13 (NIV)

Heavenly Father, I’m so grateful for the friends you’ve woven into my life—the brothers and sisters who pursue me, though my default mode is withdrawal; those who willingly bear my burdens, though I feign self-sufficiency and hate to be a bother to anybody; friends who comfort me when I’m downcast and or in a “funk,” though it’s hard to be genuinely weak and vulnerable in the presence of others.

Father, thank you for friends who know how to encourage me with their presence, prayers, and words; those who remind me of the gospel, and help me get a better perspective on disappointments and hurts. Thank you for those who know how to confront me and “call me out,” from self-pity and cynicism, to faith, freedom, and hope.

Make me the same kind of friend, Father, especially in this next season of life. Whether you give me five, ten or fifteen more years of life, I want to finish my days in this world as an encourager and comforter—as a conduit of your mercy and grace. I don’t need any more stuff and acclaim, and I certainly don’t need to get busier. As I preach it, so may I live it: “The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself in love.” (Gal. 5:6)

Help me offer presence quicker than answers, more listening than advice; hope, not spin; my heart, and not just my hands. I’m a rich man because of the way you love me in Jesus, and the friends you’ve put in my life. Love through me to your glory, Father. So very Amen I pray, in Jesus’ kind and near name.

A suggestion: As a follow-up to this prayer, why not text, call, or email a few of your friends you thought of as you read/prayed these verses and meditation this morning.

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