“We plan and should do so; but God controls the GPS, our steps, route, pace, and outcomes.” (Paraphrase of Prov.16:9)
“Whatever doors, determinations, and delights, Jesus opens—no one can shut, and whatever Jesus shuts—no one can pry open.” (Paraphrase of Rev.3:7)
“My purpose will stand, and I will do all that I please.” (Isa.46:10)
Lord Jesus, if we take these Scriptures to heart and into life—we will live with less stress and more peace, less second guessing and more first love (Rev.2:4-5). You are faithfully working all things together after the counsel of your will (Eph.1:11)—no exceptions. You are working in all things for your glory and our good (Rm.8:28)—no exceptions.
Many years I labored under the arrogance and anxiety of assuming that if I prayed hard enough, was “single-minded” enough, and full enough of the Holy Spirit I could know the specifics of your will for my life before decision-making time.
THEN, if I bought the right car, it would never break down. If I bought the right house the roof would never leak. If I married the right person ,we would never disagree—much less fight. If I went to the right college I’d get the right job. If I sent my kids to the right school they’d never act up or act out. How naïve, self-centered, and contrary to the Scriptures.
You are certainly honored when we seek to do everything “in line with the truth of the Gospel” (Gal.2:14) and use sanctified common sense; but free us to live with more confidence that you are our Good Shepherd—not a consulting partner; our very present Lord—not an absentee landlord; our reigning King—not a hands-tied bystander.
You aren’t a game show host who sets 3 doors in front of us hoping we’ll choose wisely. You ARE the door, Jesus (Jn.10:9). Life is 100% about trusting the right Lord (you); not making the right decision. Whew, Yea, Verily, and So Very Amen.