This month marks my 20th year in full-time pastoral ministry. In some ways, the time has flown by; in others, it feels much longer. The milestone prompted some personal reflection. With the hope that these thoughts might encourage others, I’m sharing 20 lessons on 20 years in ministry. I hope to expand on many of them in the coming months, but for now, they stand as brief, individual insights.
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There is no greater privilege than preaching the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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The Bible is true and powerful—act accordingly.
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Your wife is a gift from God. She’s your greatest ministry partner and biggest supporter. Honor, love, and cherish her.
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Prayer is an essential part of your job description. You can literally change lives—including your own—through prayer.
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Never microwave a brisket or a sermon. They both get their flavor from slow, patient cooking.
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Try to grow something (a garden, a tree, or even a beard). It’ll help shape your perspective on ministry.
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People will disappoint you. God never will.
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Kids really do grow up fast. Don’t check out. Be present. Enjoy being a dad—it’s some of the good in a fallen world.
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Read good books. Include fiction and poetry with your theology. Also, listen to jazz.
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God wants you to worship on Sunday Mornings along with everyone else. The accumulative effect of checking out or focusing on other things is harmful to your soul. The ordinary means of grace are meant to nourish pastors, too.
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Sin is as destructive as it is deceptive. Beware.
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Take care of your body. Physical exercise, sleep, and diet are gifts to steward. Also, rest and recreation are important—but they’re not entitlements.
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Prioritize regularly gathering with pastors in your area. They need it, and so do you.
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Don’t measure faithfulness by the budget or attendance.
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Where there’s smoke, there’s fire.
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Keep the right perspective: anything less than hell is a reason to rejoice.
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Avoid trying to be an expert on current issues. Instead, master a few respected theologians, a confession of faith, or areas of doctrine.
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Regularly pour out your heart to the Lord. He loves you and cares for you more than anyone. He is your greatest friend.
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Write things down for later. Encouragements tend to shrink in the rearview mirror, and discouragements grow.
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It’s going to be okay. Jesus rose from the dead.
