In Scripture the word “father” is found more than 1,100 times. Yet in America it’s become increasingly harder to find a father in the home. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 24 million children in America — one out of three children — now live in a home in which the biological father is absent.
Increasing father involvement in their children’s lives is one of the most important ways to address material and spiritual poverty in this country. One way we can do that is to reiterate the importance of fathers and the difference their presence makes. Almost every study conducted in the social sciences confirms what the Bible teaches — fathers matter.
Here are 25 facts from social science research on the effects of having a father in the home:
2. Adolescents living in intact families tend to report closer relationships with their fathers.
5. Adolescents with more involved fathers tend to exhibit lower levels of behavioral problems.
10. Fathers’ religiosity is linked to higher quality of parent-child relationships.
11. Fathers’ engagement in their children’s activities was linked to higher academic performance.
13. Close father-adolescent bonds protect against the negative influence of peer drug use.
17. Men who become fathers outside of marriage are more likely to be poor.
18. Fathers of intact families spend, on average, more time with their children.
21. Intact families are more likely to provide a safe home for children.
25. Children in father-absent homes are almost four times more likely to be poor.
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