May God, who gives this patience and encouragement, help you live in complete harmony with each other, as is fitting for followers of Christ Jesus. Then all of you can join together with one voice, giving praise and glory to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, accept each other just as Christ has accepted you so that God will be given glory. Rom 15:5-7 (NLT)
Heavenly Father, this passage “nails me.” One of the surest indicators I need the gospel every day is revealed by the way I relate to people when I’m in a hurry or under stress. I’ve discovered this, yet again, in this season of having so much to do in a small window of time.
I stand convicted Lord—convicted that my passion to get things done often takes precedent over my calling to love people well. Rather than enjoying the diversity of perspectives, insights, and emotional wiring in others, I endure them at best, and resent them at worse. Rather than heeding Paul’s words in this Scripture to “accept each other just as Christ has accepted you (me),” I often want (expect) people to see and do things my way, which is “obviously” the best way.
Father, I am grateful you’re the God who “gives patience and encouragement,” because I need both. I need patience to enjoy and accept the rich tapestry of people and perspectives that surround me—where I live, work, and play. Forgive me justifying my relational style by my Myers Brigg’s profile as an INTP, rather than repenting and loving through my union with Christ.
The older I get, the kinder and more flexible I want to become. Suffering from the “hardening of the categories” may be normal, but it isn’t necessary. When others “grate on my nerves,” give me grace in my heart. When I want to roll my eyes in annoyance, help me roll up my sleeves in service. For your glory, Father, make me more like Jesus. So very Amen I pray, in his wonderful and merciful name.
